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How to make gardening fun for children

May 26, 2015 by Catherine 4 Comments

It’s true that involving children in your garden or allotment is a fabulously rewarding experience for all taking part, but it can be a little daunting trying to make it fun.  I know I’ve been guilty of encouraging the children to come outside with me, only to promptly become preachy and controlling when they try to get involved.  And that’s no fun for anyone!

I am a bit of a control freak, which is why gardening is so good for me – I have to accept it’s never going to be “finished” or exactly how I want it.  In fact it’s this very nature of gardening that also makes it a perfect fit for children – they’re much better at going with the flow than the grown-ups.

I’ve learned from experience that if you can keep a few simple things in mind when gardening with children, then not only will it keep things fun, it will actually work to your advantage in terms of getting more than one pair of hands on the job.  Here are my top tips for getting it right.

children garden plan

Let them be part of the planning

Talk to children about what you want to achieve before you start, so they know what you’re trying to do.  Ask them to draw up a design , plan or action list.  If you let them tell you their ideas they will become excited and engaged.

children sowing seeds

Give them a series of little jobs

Keep kids busy, but don’t give them things to do that are overly repetitive or boring (even if you’d rather not do these jobs yourself!).  It’s OK if they water the borders for a couple of minutes, then help you with some pruning, then go back to watering, then plant some seeds etc.  It will all get done in the end.

Show them, then ask them to show you

This one works brilliantly with my 3 year old.  I get to show her the right way to do it, then she gets to boss me around telling me what to do.  Then she shows her big brother, her dad, next door’s cat……

children raised bed

Give them their own patch of land

It’s really worth sparing a patch of earth or a container that your child can call their own; they will become so much more involved in looking after it if they have a sense of responsibility.  Encourage them to decorate their plot, choose their plants, write their own plant markers and teach them how to look after their plants.  We gave each of our children their own little plot at our allotment and the pride they take in caring for those small pieces of earth is magical to see.

children gardening mucky hands

Let them get dirty!

Yes, there will be laundry consequences.  But I can’t garden without getting grubby so I don’t expect my kids to either, and besides, it’s fun to dig in earth with your hands, water your wellies and generally forget yourself in real hands-on engagement with nature.

children pottering in the gardenLet them potter

I don’t spend every minute in the garden or allotment being productive.  For me, gardening is a fantastic way to stop being busy and a lot of the joy is in the ability to just “be” there.  Kids are the same in my experience.  I find that as long as I’m pottering about in the background they are often content to do the same and there’s no need to interfere.  And when they do get a bit restless, remember that series of little jobs I mentioned earlier?

If you’d like more fun gardening ideas, check out my posts on 10 brilliant garden projects to do with children, 50 fun ways to get kids gardening and quick and easy vegetables to grow for lots of inspiration.

What are your tips for fun ways to involve children in the garden?

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  1. Anya from Older Single Mum and The Healer says

    June 3, 2015 at 7:54 pm

    I love the idea of giving them their own areas – might really work with mine. ATM we have a deal – for as long as they help me in the garden (bearing in mind I am a single mum with two sons and feel it’s the principle and a mental investment for when they’re older) they’re allowed the equivalent time on the Wii U. Works like a dream (as it’s the only time they’re allowed on it) but I wish they’d opt for more time outside and am hoping that day will come!

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    • Catherine says

      June 4, 2015 at 8:35 am

      Oh that’s a good contract you have with them there! It’s so hard to counter the pull of the screens isn’t it, we’re just starting to see how tricky it is with our 8 year old. I’m hoping that making outdoors time a natural part of what they do can’t fail to have an impact, fingers crossed!

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  2. Dawn Isaac says

    March 22, 2016 at 11:50 am

    Couldn’t agree more with everything you say. And as Anya says, it does become harder with the draw of screens but we always go ‘screen free ’til 3′ every Sunday which is often when garden-time happens.

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    • Catherine says

      March 22, 2016 at 6:47 pm

      Oh I like that idea of screen-free ’til 3, and how brilliant that it creates family gardening time as well as controlling the tech – I’m going to give that one a go!

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